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The class have already reached the medium scope of the Lam Rim. Wow! Time sure flies huh? Here I am going to write about what I learned while referring to my notes and then I will elaborate a bit.

It is said that the Buddha gave his own flesh so that he can learn the Dharma. We are also reminded of the three pots which would either be leaky, contaminated, or upturned.

Now, i am going to write about a form of meditation.

Think about these few things. What is it that everyday we think of the most? What would be a bad day? What would you do on this bad day to make yourself feel better?

Think about it. Make a mental note about it. What? You want my answer?

The thing that I think about mostly would be food and school. A bad day to me is if things do not go along my way. My solution is not got and it is impermanent. What I do is that I go online or play some computer games. Usually, i do both.

If you did it right. You will only need 3 minutes. Yet, it felt so long. To me, it felt like as if I was already halfway through the class by the end of the meditation. This is quite noticeable. Try it! Come on!

When we are quiet, we will see our thoughts. There is one downside. You might get bored or tired because our mind is like a monkey mind. Our mind really does not like to stay in one place, it is like a monkey, hence the term "monkey mind".

Meditation is a key necessity to become Enlightened. If you want to become Enlightened, you have to meditate.

We all have the capability to meditate. In fact, we do it all day. We just meditate on the wrong things. We meditate on food, entertainment, a boy or a girl etc.

The Vajrayana Path, which is the path I follow, tells us to understand and acknowledge any feelings you have inside. That way, we can get to see our maras, our negative qualities , basically all the crap inside of us.

This meditation teaches you to recognize all those negative qualities. Also, you can also lean how to change your negative qualities and use them to benefit others and yourself. For example, if you are a very stubborn person, instead of being stubborn over detaching yourself from bad deeds, you can be stubborn in the sense that when you are doing the Dharma, you will be stubborn to stop.

We never get to know our own good or bad qualities if we do not do meditation.

We do not want to sit still as we have bad thoughts and we want to move about. Control it. Take note of it.

If you do the meditation in a group, you might be able to notice a pattern or certain similarities. If you all feel uncomfortable when you keep silent, then it is the silence that is bothersome. That is not entirely true, there most likely would be a slight difference in the thoughts so that there could be one person that likes the silence. So, it is not the silence.

That was just the opening to the lesson!

The day that the class was covering that day was Day 14. This day covers the sufferings of samsara.

Training your mind in the stages of the stages of the path if the path shared with the medium scope.

1)Developing thoughts of yearning for liberation.

a)Thinking about the general sufferings of samsara

i) The bane of uncertainty

We are unsure of things. We are never certain about anything. It can be like this one day and then it will be different another day. People do change nearly everyday and for some people, they can change in mere hours. There is no such thing as certainty. This causes a lot of pain for some people as they would not have things go a certain way.

ii) The bane of being dissatisfied.

Our enjoyments are like drinking salt water. Just try to be content, there is no need for more than needed.

iii) The bane of repeatedly leaving bodies

We do not stop changing. A car engine is easier to maintain than a human body.

iv) The bane of being conceived and born over and over again

The pain of being born over and over again is painful. It is like being crushed.

v)The bane of moving high to slow over and over again

It is going from heaven to hell. It is like going from ceo to slave then you go back to ceo.

vi) The bane of having no companion

Simple loneliness. As if no one gave a damn about you. We are born alone and we die alone.


b) The specific sufferings

i) The suffering of birth

Being born is painful. The small, fragile baby is being crushed by the birth canal. Then, the baby suddenly feels a different temperature. Then, the baby get slapped. I bet the baby would be thinking, "OMG, What the Firetruck are you doing to me." Even the softest fabric may feel like sandpaper to the baby's tender soft skin.

ii) Aging

'Nuff said.

iii) Illness

Some people have physical illness cannot move, but have a great mind. Vice versa.

iv)Death

Death is harder to relate to. We still cannot escape from death. The Dharma will help you prepare.

v) Separated from the beautiful

Being separated from things that are good

vi) Meeting with the ugly

Opposite of the above.

vii) Seeking things that you desire but you do not find them.

Such as if you plan what you are fdoiung next but you do not succeed.

c) Sufferings of the Demi-gods

They suffer a lot of mental suffering. They go to war because they do not have enough power. They go to war with the gods. They are very jealous.

d) Sufferings of the Gods

For those who believe in the one God thing, I am happy for you. In Buddhism, we still put God under samsara because we believe that Gods (there are more than one) can die. This is how (try to imagine):

After thousands to million years of enjoyments, you have never experienced suffering or pain. Your once golden color body turns dark like ashes. You find your throne disgusting. You once beautiful and colourful flower garlands rot and wither. Your robes catch stains.

There, not so nice isn't it?

There are three types of suffering:

1)The suffering of change

This would include feeling happy then sad. We will have contaminated happiness.

2) The suffering that pervades condition phenomena

3) The suffering of suffering

Saying out loud that you are suffering. That is the suffering of suffering.

So that is day 14.
I am going to be writing down everything I learned in Simplified Lam Rim Class yesterday. If there is anything I missed out, please tell me. Please correct me if I am wrong. If there is something you do not understand or if there any questions you would like to ask me, please do so. I will do everything I can to look for the answers.

According to the Nalanda Teachings, before we can receive teachings. We need to know the three purities. That is the purity of the Dharma, the purity of the Guru and the purity of the student. Guess which one we can relate to the most. If you thought that it was the purity of the student. You are right!

We can relate to that the most as we are currently Dharma students. Our mind must be pure when learning the Dharma. Pure meaning uncontaminated. You do not want to be like the dirty pot. I will talk about that later.

Every word of the Dharma is about reflecting yourself.

If we see someone that is going to die or past away of sickness, old age etc. What do you think? Most humans would think, "Whew! Lucky that was not me!" that is a bad way of thinking. We should be thinking, "I will be like them one day." or better, "I want to find the cure." The cure is the Dharma. You will be liberated from all suffering when you get enlightened after learning and practicing.

Why do we go and learn the Dharma? My answer would be that I can learn how to open my mind and reflect with my inner Buddhist.

Whatever things we have now will be lost at Death. All the money, all the Gems, everything you like will be gone when you are either six feet under, ashes or vulture food. Many people think that Buddhism is very pessimistic because we usually talk about death. In Buddhism, Death is one of the main subjects as it is applicable to all. We cannot challenge Death. Death comes to all.

Last week, Mr. Ngeow talked about profound and vast path. Noy just to let everyone know a bit more. The profound path comes from Manjushri and the Vast path comes from Maitreya.

Let's talk about Aitsha now.

When Atisha was born he had already had all the good qualities of a Buddha yet he still was humble. His first talk was, "I need a Guru".

Atisha got Enlightened in 12 years. Why am I telling everyone this? It is to prove that there is hope. We can get Enlightened in this lifetime.

There is no contradiction in any of Buddha's teachings. It is very consistent with our goal of Enlightenment, freedom from Suffering and permanent happiness.

Buddhadharma is all personal advice to be practiced.

Buddha's ultimate intention is for us to understand all of the stages of the path. The path is already paved out for you. It is your choice to take it. The path to Enlightenment caters for all. Even if you are black or white or yellow, you can get Enlightened.

When we study the Lam Rim, we will become wiser and when we become wiser, our motivations will change. When we are not so wise, our objectives will be very worldly but when we are wiser, we will think about others and our motivations will be more spiritual.

Why do we need a guru?

The reason is that a guru can see our mind and help us correct it. Here is a video on guru devotion by H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche




Listening to the Dharma

By listening to the Dharma, you will experience the following:

- Understand the meaning of the Dharma
- Cease non virtuous actions
- Abandoning meaningless pursuit
- oversome suffering

Listening is a lamp that dispels the darkness of ignorance.

Listening is the best gift we can have.

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It is a gift because you can learn the Dharma by listening.

We must not be like the three pots.

Here is a picture of the three pots I drew. Please forgive me for my horrible art skills. I could not find a good enough picture online.

From right to left ----- Overturned pot, smelly pot, leaky pot.

Overturned pot - Nothing goes in

Smelly pot - Contaminated with wrong view and there is no result or improvement when in the Dharma.

Leaky pot - Things come in from one side and come out from the other side.

We are at least like one of these pots. Which pot are you?

We must not be like these pots. That is why we have the Dharma. We can use the Dharma to stop us from being like the pots or if you are any of the pots, it will stop us from remaining as any of the pots forever.

Rinpoche once said that a Dharma centre is like a hospital. We must regard ourselves as the sick people. We may be physically fine but we are mentally sick. The Dharma is the cure to our disease. The guru is our supreme doctor.

Our faith will increase when we overcome doubts.

Holding precepts or vows helps us to remind ourselves to be mindful.

What to buy to learn for today?



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